Primary school years: school, friends and rules

As school life begins the child’s world widens: teachers, friends, homework and rules. At this age children start to tell their story through both play and words.

Ages 7–12

Primary school years: school, friends and rules

Common topics

  • Settling into school and not wanting to go
  • Attention and homework routines
  • Worries, fears and exam stress
  • Friendship problems and exclusion
  • Struggles with anger and rules

When to seek support?

  • School refusal or morning aches have lasted for weeks
  • The teacher keeps giving feedback on the same issue
  • The child has clearly pulled away from friends
  • Fears are affecting sleep and daily routine
  • The child often speaks negatively about themselves

How does the first meeting go?

The first meeting is with parents. Then, in the sessions to meet the child, play, drawing and conversation are used together. If needed, and with your consent, I talk to the teacher.

This guide is for information only; it does not diagnose. If you remain worried, talk to a professional.

Not sure where to start? Let’s talk for 15 minutes.If you like, let’s just talk for 15 minutes first.

The free intro call is by phone or online; then we decide together.Write with your family, or write first yourself; we’ll decide together how to start.