Child and adolescent psychology · Karşıyaka, İzmir and online parent meetingsAges 13–18 · Karşıyaka · talking, drawing or staying quiet are all fine

What your child can’t say,
they show in play.
You don’t need the right words
to say what’s on your mind.

Play therapy, settling into school, anxiety, attention and talking with teens. I listen to you first, then we meet your child in the playroom.Nobody here tries to fix you. School, friends, tension at home or a feeling you can’t name; we start wherever you want.

First step: a free 15-minute intro call (phone or online).If you like, we just talk for 15 minutes first. Free, no promises needed.

What happens if you come here?

  • What you say stays between us.We decide together what your family is told. The only exception: if your safety or someone else’s is at risk.
  • You don’t have to talk.You can draw, play a game, put on a song or stay quiet for a while.
  • Nobody tries to “solve” you.The first meeting is just to get to know each other. No labels, no tests, no homework.
  • If telling your family is hard, I can help.We can think together about how to say “I’d like to talk to a psychologist.”

Go to the page for teens

Guide by ageWhat happens at your age?

Every age has its own language. Tap a block: common topics at that age, when to seek support and how the first meeting goes.The 13–18 block is for you. Look at the others too; maybe for a younger sibling.

Preschool: a world told through play

At this age children show feelings through behaviour and play. Short-lived struggles are part of development; those that last and narrow the day need attention.

The full Ages 0–6 guide

Common topics

  • Separation anxiety and settling into nursery
  • Struggles around sleep and toilet training
  • Tantrums
  • A new sibling and changes in the family
  • Questions about speech, play and social development

When to seek support?

  • The struggle lasts more than a few weeks and is growing
  • There is a clear step back in sleep, eating or toilet habits
  • The child never joins in play with peers
  • You have questions about speech or eye contact

Play therapySettling into schoolAnxiety and fearsDevelopmental assessment

Primary school years: school, friends and rules

As school life begins the child’s world widens: teachers, friends, homework and rules. At this age children start to tell their story through both play and words.

The full Ages 7–12 guide

Common topics

  • Settling into school and not wanting to go
  • Attention and homework routines
  • Worries, fears and exam stress
  • Friendship problems and exclusion
  • Struggles with anger and rules

When to seek support?

  • School refusal or morning aches have lasted for weeks
  • The teacher keeps giving feedback on the same issue
  • The child has clearly pulled away from friends
  • Fears are affecting sleep and daily routine

Play therapySettling into schoolAttention and focusAnxiety and fears

Adolescence: finding your own voice

Adolescence is a time of separating from the family and searching for identity. Closed doors are often normal, but they can also signal a load the teen can’t carry.Feeling confused, arguing often with your family, feeling that nobody understands you — all very common at this age. You don’t need a “big problem” to talk to someone. What you say stays with me; the only exception is your safety or someone else’s.

The full Ages 13–18 guide

Common topics

  • Communication and tension at home
  • School and exam pressure
  • Friendships, exclusion and social media
  • Anger, withdrawal and lack of motivation
  • Questions of identity, body and self-esteem

When to seek support?

  • Sleep or eating patterns have clearly changed
  • They have long pulled away from things and friends they love
  • School performance has dropped quickly
  • They talk about self-harm or death: call 112 without waiting and contact a professional

Attention and focusAnxiety and fearsTalking with teens

This guide is for information only; it does not diagnose. If you remain worried, talk to a professional.

What is in the playroom?What’s in the room, and what for?

Every material has a job. Tap the dots on the photo; from the sand tray to the puppets, I explain why each one is there.Yes, there are toys. But there’s also a corner for teens: cushions, books, a sketchbook. Check the dots.

Photos of the playroom
The playroom from above: a sand tray in the centre with a basket of figures, paints, blocks, puppets and a dollhouse around it

1Sand tray

In the blue-bottomed tray sand becomes land and water; the scene a child builds becomes a map of their inner world. Digging, smoothing and shaping the sand also calms the body.Building a scene in sand is an easy way to show something hard to say.

2Miniature figures

People, animals, houses, trees, bridges, vehicles… The child builds their story with figures; scenes of family, school or fear are told through these small characters.There are hundreds of figures on the shelves; teens use them too.

3Paint and drawing

Colour and line where words are not enough. Drawings show us the child’s mood and world that week; we look together rather than interpret.The sketchbook is yours; you don’t have to show anyone what you draw.

4Blocks

Build, knock down, build again. Blocks let us work on patience, planning and coping with frustration within play.

5Puppets

Saying something through a puppet is easier than saying it yourself. Puppets let us talk about fears, anger and difficult conversations from a safe distance.

6Dollhouse

With its rooms and little family, the dollhouse is the most natural way for a child to show routines at home, sibling relationships and daily life.

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Psychologist Zeynep Aydın in the playroom next to a shelf of figures
The psychologist building a block tower with a child on the rug

Hello, I’m Zeynep Aydın.

I work through play with children and through conversation with teens.I’m a psychologist who tries to speak your language.

I have worked with children, teenagers and their families for more than ten years. Every child who comes to the room has their own story; my job is to listen to it without hurrying and to find, together with the parents, steps that make the child’s day a little easier.Nobody grades you here. You share as much as you want; the rest we talk about over time, at your pace.

  • BSc PsychologyEge University · 2008–2012
  • MSc Developmental PsychologyHacettepe University · 2012–2015
  • Child-Centred Play Therapy trainingApplied training + supervision · 2016
  • Denver II Developmental Screening Test practitioner training2017
  • Cognitive behavioural therapy with children and adolescents2018
My training and how I work

How does the first meeting go?

I listen to you before I meet your child. Each step builds on the one before; there is no rush.

  1. Mother and father talking with the psychologist
    Parents only

    Parent meeting

    50 minutes. Your child’s development, school, routine at home and what worries you. The child does not come to this meeting.

  2. A child’s hands playing with puppets
    Child / teen

    Meeting in the playroom

    One or two sessions. Play with young children, conversation with teens; the aim is to build trust.

  3. Shape sorter and developmental assessment materials
    Parents

    Assessment and plan

    I share my observations: what we can work on, how often, and whether we need to work with the school.

  4. A child building a block tower with the psychologist
    Child + parents

    Regular sessions

    Usually one session a week and a parent meeting every four to six weeks. The child’s needs set the length.

More for parents

A mother at home joining a video call on her laptop

Online parent meetings

For parents who cannot come to Karşıyaka or who live outside İzmir. Play therapy with the child is face to face; parent meetings can be online.

Platform
An end-to-end encrypted video link sent by text message on the day. No app needed.
Privacy
I recommend a quiet room with the door closed and headphones, ideally out of your child’s hearing.
Not recorded
Meetings are not recorded and no screenshots are taken. I keep only my professional notes.
Who is it for?
First parent meetings, progress reviews and advice on the preschool years.
Request an online meeting
  • Free Intro call 15 min · free
  • 2.600 TRY First parent meeting 50 min · per meeting
  • 2.400 TRY Play therapy / child session 45 min · per session
  • 2.600 TRY Teen session 50 min · per session

Please let me know at least 24 hours in advance if you need to cancel or reschedule.

Parent seminars

Small-group meetings with plenty of questions and answers. Places are limited; fill in the form to book.

  1. 22Nov School mornings: saying goodbye without tearsThe playroom, Karşıyaka · 10:30–12:00 · 12 places Book a place
  2. 20Dec Talking with teens: side-by-side conversationsOnline · 20:00–21:30 · 20 places Book a place

What parents ask mostWhat teens ask

All questions

How do I know whether my child needs a psychologist?

Short-lived struggles are part of development. If a behaviour or feeling lasts more than a few weeks, keeps growing and affects sleep, school or friendships, it is a good idea to talk to a professional. If you’re unsure, we can talk it through in a free 15-minute intro call.

How should I tell my child where we are going?

Simply, without lying and without presenting it as a punishment: “We’re going to meet someone who plays and talks about feelings.” For young children, looking at photos of the playroom together also helps.

What if my child doesn’t want to come?

This is very common. The first meeting is with parents anyway; we plan together how to help the child feel ready. With teens, leaving part of the decision to them makes it easier.

How long does play therapy take?

The child’s needs set the length; I don’t promise a number of sessions in advance. We review the process together in parent meetings every four to six weeks.

Does a developmental assessment give a diagnosis?

No. Screening shows whether a child needs support in an area. If a diagnosis is needed I refer you to the relevant specialist, such as child and adolescent psychiatry or paediatric neurology.

Can you tell me whether my child has ADHD?

ADHD is diagnosed by a child and adolescent psychiatrist. I carry out assessment and observation, refer to psychiatry if I think it is needed and provide psychological support throughout.

Will my family find out what I say?

No, I don’t repeat your exact words. I give your family general updates, but I talk to you first about what I’ll say. The only exception is if your safety or someone else’s is in danger; even then I talk to you first.

Do I need a big problem to come?

No. School, friends, tension at home or just a very full head is reason enough.

What if I don’t want to talk?

Nothing happens. You can draw, play a game or stay quiet for a while. You set the pace.

Can I come without my family knowing?

If you are under 18, sessions start with your family’s consent. But we can think together about how to tell them; you can also ask a question on WhatsApp first.

What should I do if I have thoughts of hurting myself?

Call 112 straight away or tell an adult near you immediately. These thoughts can be talked about and help is available; you are not alone.

Will you tell me what is said in sessions?

I regularly share my general observations and where the process is heading, but not the details of play and conversations. If the child’s or anyone else’s safety is at stake, I will always share it with you.

Not sure where to start? Let’s talk for 15 minutes.If you like, let’s just talk for 15 minutes first.

The free intro call is by phone or online; then we decide together.Write with your family, or write first yourself; we’ll decide together how to start.